Welcome to Makuma π
Makuma makes space for unexpected meetings that can change your life - no swiping required! β¨
The fascinating discussions you missed π, the wonderful people you might never have known π€, the experiences you weren't previously invited to π. We create a comfortable 'bubble' in which to connect more deeply, become a part of our community and explore our deepest desires together π«.
Our Principles for Deeper Connection π±
Curiosity π
- β’ Approach each conversation like a mini adventure. Let yourself be surprised, and donβt hurry to ask or answer.
- β’ Give time and listen to understand β not to fix. The world expands when we do.
Compassion β€οΈ
- β’ Begin knowing you donβt have the whole story. Offer care without trying to solve or save.
- β’ Youβre welcome as you are β and so is the person across from you.
Consent π€
- β’ True connection is never forced. Ask before giving advice or asking personal questions.
- β’ Be aware of your boundaries and ask for help when needed.
- β’ You can say βnoβ or βpassβ anytime.
- β’ Trust others to do the same β that makes space for a real βyes.β
Centered π±
- β’ Check in with how you feel. Breathe. Notice. Come back to the person in front of you and to this moment.
- β’ If you feel over or understimulated, take a break and return to your centre β thatβs where connection lives.
Courage π₯
- β’ Connection takes bravery. Itβs not always easy to show up, speak honestly, or be seen.
- β’ Courage isnβt about being fearless β lean in gently even when you feel nervous.
- β’ Every brave step counts, big or small.
How It Works π―
Our algorithm will match you with a partner with whom you share something in common. Your challenge is to find out what it is! π
You'll be given some carefully-chosen questions to help you in the direction of revealing your personality and avoiding falling into repetitive smalltalk or philosophical diversions.
If you and your partner succeed in following the 'five Cs', you'll find it creates a space for you to express your feelings openly and be authentic. Your differences become the spark for interesting conversation, not something to be judged. Your similarities and shared struggles become a force that draws you closer to each other, and allows you to feel seen and supported in that moment. π«